Hey all,
I am worried about my mom. She came over to my place today to fill out an ADD test and when she was done, she said, "You really need to get a haircut." I responded by asking her why i would get a haircut. Then she left. I worry that she is not in discovery mode but in denial mode. I hope she is not and I am sorry. I hope she knows that I will help her with anything she needs as long as she calls and I apologize for springing this on her when I did. I don't understand, but then I don't think that I can. I appreciate all the support from those who already know about me and I look forward to my mom's acceptance of me.
-Hannah
Hmmm sounds like she's trying to tell you something. :(
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, it is not her choice and she does not have control over this. It IS hard for any parent to deal with, especially when knowledge regarding the experiences of Trans-people is scarce and so taboo, but unfortunately, this is the direction you are taking. There is really not much that you can be sorry for, other than it being inconvenient to her. (And really...is who you are truly inconvenient? Seems mean to suggest so, don't you think?)
In time, I think she'll begin to understand more, but right now things are all very new to her. Have you thought about getting her some books to read? Literature? Websites and support groups so she can get the right information? A lot of people (and parents!) react this way when they're afraid and confused. Providing information/knowledge may help. Of course, that is totally up to you what kind of assistance you are comfortable providing.
Keep your chin up, dear! I'm sending good thoughts your way! Let me know if there is anything I can do to help! <3
Much Love,
Susie